Comments on: Speed of sound – coldplay(relax)

By: kelseylynn10023

kelseylynn10023 — Thu, 03 Dec 2009 22:11:32 +0000

Relax your hands first. My cross country coach back in high school would make us run with holding a potato chip in our hands. If we broke the chip, then we had to run more. Really sucked, but I never clench my fists.
When running, occasionally move your shoulders around to loosen muscles….helps your minds think of relaxing upper body muscles.

By: enisainwonderland

enisainwonderland — Thu, 03 Dec 2009 22:02:30 +0000

I used to stretch and do some deep breathing. It always did the trick. Got me loose and centered and ready.

By: LUISAOHENRY

LUISAOHENRY — Thu, 03 Dec 2009 21:16:28 +0000

Fantastic! Marvelous!

By: stonerosedesigndotcom

stonerosedesigndotcom — Thu, 03 Dec 2009 18:39:10 +0000

There's no specific phenomenon, if that's what you're asking. The event of orgasm is mediated by massive sympathetic discharge from the CNS, which is why it is so intense — the relaxation afterwards is a combined effect of rapid withdrawal of said sympathetic output, and increased parasympathetic output.

I'm not aware of significant physiological differences in gender-orgasms — there may be differences in intensity, but that may be dependent on the individual and context.

By: gregb

gregb — Thu, 03 Dec 2009 16:41:13 +0000

Block out all thoughts from your head and focus on your partners "goodies". Also you want to try to eat healthy foods and exercise before having sex. Vitamins are good to take. Research on foods that help with erection. hope this helped

By: Fact Not Fiction

Fact Not Fiction — Thu, 03 Dec 2009 15:43:32 +0000

Well, first of all, make sure she is listening to your leg 100% by doing transition work, switching up of the direction often, circles, serpentines, extensions/collections, etc. Generally once a horse is warmed up enough, they will drop down and relax on the bit all by themselves. If this does not work however, try putting her on a 20 m. circle. Keep a very steady outside rein and outside leg so that she doesn't buldge the shoulder and to keep her hind end a little straighter (in case she over bends). With the inside leg and hand, ask at the same time so squeeze one stride with the inside leg and ask with the inside hand at the same time (sometimes just sponging on the reins works…if she becomes super resistant, try lifting the inside hand and then bring it back then lift, then bring it back on and off with the same time you appy your inside leg). Keep her moving forward because it is easier for a horse to move into the bit when they are moving forward. When she gives even just a little bit, reward by relaxing and then immediately ask her to drop again. Eventually she should listen and carry herself. When she does, relax on the reins and let her keep carrying herself. The moment that she raises her head, ask her again to drop down with the inside leg and hand.

Generally just before they come down, they will toss their head even higher as a resistance – keep asking at this point and she should come down.

By: Sbunch

Sbunch — Thu, 03 Dec 2009 13:34:52 +0000

20 minutes? You'll just have to Go For It. Find a comfortable chair or couch that you can rest your entire body on, set your timer for 20 minutes and MAKE YOURSELF become as limp as a ragdoll. Close your eyes and dont think, except to imagine the scent and image of a rose, a beach to hear the waves. Choose your image before you lay down and use all your senses in your image. Thats it.
Ragdoll body, Imagination at work, reassurance of timer going off, precluding sleep.
It works for me. Good Luck.

By: sweet_16_45356

sweet_16_45356 — Thu, 03 Dec 2009 09:28:31 +0000

What does relax you? For me it is bubble baths and bodice ripper novels. You might also change the time of day. Try morning trysts instead of evening ones.

By: DanyBaron

DanyBaron — Thu, 03 Dec 2009 09:06:37 +0000

great, where u got all those pictures from?

By: conker1080

conker1080 — Thu, 03 Dec 2009 08:17:26 +0000

It’s easy when you see what kind of corrupt, selfish men rule the world.